Starbucks Worker Forced to Make Extravagant Coffee Drinks on Thanksgiving With Her Family, She Puts Her Foot Down, Embarrassing Her Mother on the Holiday

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    This Thanksgiving, my mom hosted dinner and invited a bunch of extended family. After we finished eating, she casually announced, "Okay, everyone, [my name] will be making Starbucks drinks for dessert!" I was totally blindsided. Apparently, she had bought a bunch of syrups,
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    r/AITAH ⚫7 hr. ago CapitalAlarming AITA for refusing to make Starbucks drinks for my family on Thanksgiving?
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    I (28F) worked at Starbucks for a little over two years, and ever since then, my family has loved asking me to recreate their favorite drinks at home. I don't mind doing it once in a while, but it's not exactly my favorite thing- especially because I don't have all the equipment or supplies that Starbucks has.
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    This Thanksgiving, my mom hosted dinner and invited a bunch of extended family. After we finished eating, she casually announced, "Okay, everyone, [my name] will be making Starbucks drinks for dessert!" I was totally blindsided. Apparently, she had bought a bunch of syrups,
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    whipped cream, and even a little espresso machine just for this.
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    When I said I didn't really feel like making drinks for 15+ people, my mom got super annoyed and said, "It's not that hard for you-you used to do this all the time at work!" A few of my cousins started chiming in too, saying it would be fun and that they'd help. But I didn't come to Thanksgiving to
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    play barista for the whole family, so I stood my ground.
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    Now my mom is upset, saying I embarrassed her after she went out of her way to buy all the supplies. Some of my family thinks I was being selfish and that it wouldn't have taken that long. But I just wanted to enjoy the holiday, not work for it.
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    kberson 6h ago When entitled people don't get what they want, they call you selfish. You're NTA, but your mom certainly is for not talking to you about first.
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    ashkebane ⚫6h ago Top 1% Commenter NTA. She shouldn't have blindsided you like that.
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    Brief_Calendar44... • 6h ago • Should have discussed it with you beforehand.
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    tsscaramel • 6h ago • NTA. Nobody likes bringing their work home, if your mother wants it so badly she can learn how to do it herself.
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    U... 6h ago Edited 5h ago • Top 1% Commenter NTA - I'm a hairstylist... I'm ALWAYS asked to bring my shears with me to every occasion. I feel this in my soul.
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    PlantsnStamps • 6h ago • Your mom embarrassed herself by volunteering you to work at family gathering, asking people to help clean up and cook-fine thats normal but don't expect someone to come do what they do for a living for you
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    for free. Like if you were a therapist I don't think she'd be ponying up free threapy sesssions for __ and giggles at a paty. NTA.
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    Final_Echidna_67... 6h ago • Good thing you're not a proctologist!
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    • Notyohunbabe ⚫ 6h ago • NTA. Mom did not give you any kind of courtesy heads up or think to ask you ahead of time. That is a an ambush or railroad move she pulled on you, expecting complicity. You don't come to a gathering to do what you get
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    paid to do. Just like the other therapist comment.
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    Legal-Lingonber... • 6h ago • Top 1% Commenter -and mom is going to wash everyone's cars!! Here's the bucket, sponges & soap!
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    Always_B_Batman • 6h ago • It's a lot easier to make drinks with the proper equipment. It's totally different when you have to "Mickey Mouse" things to make the drinks. NTA

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